You can find Unitarian Universalists resources for Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender and Queer Justice at https://www.uua.org/lgbtq and https://cuc.ca/social-justice/welcoming-congregations/
We received a positive email from a home-school teacher, whose students who found this post helpful. One student suggested we also check out this website about gender-affirming language, which includes helpful tips for those who are looking to alter their speech and language to reflect their gender.